Thursday, September 27, 2012

Gone with the Wind

Gone with the Wind


Gone with the Wind, the American classic of war, loss, rebuilding and at its heart, a story of epic love, the story of Scarlett O'Hara  and Rhett Butler two of the most unforgettable and beloved characters in literature.  
 I see Rhett as representing the future and Scarlett, the stubborn ideals of the South, clinging to the old ways of life and doggedly determined to uphold the old ways, never realizing it is already dead and she has never conformed to it in the first place.  But just like the south, Scarlett picks herself up from nothing and builds a new, better life for herself and her family.

At times I wanted to shake Scarlett until her head snapped for her utter stupidity and manipulations. She is conniving and manipulative, willing to do atrocious things to feel security. But, but she has known harshness and brutality and while her means aren't what everyone would choose, she saves not only herself, but her family as well. But damn it, can’t she see she loves Rhett and has always loved him, that Ashley isn't the man she thinks he is and that Melly is an incredible woman?

I was surprised at how stupid she comes across at times. There are times when Rhett or Ashley make reference to a book or quote and Scarlett doesn't understand nor does she care too. She is clueless to understand people and see what is right in front of her face. But for all of her faults, I love Scarlett. She’s headstrong, determined and unwilling to be defeated. Despite her thoughts of jealously and hate, she takes care of the people that she loves, sometimes unwillingly.

Rhett Butler, one of the most dynamic and dashing leading men in literature. I just love him, his wit, his intelligence, his flaunting of convention. But most of all, he is one of the only people, if not the only who understands Scarlett, her fierce determination, what drives her – and he loves her for it. Encourages her where others discourage. He loves her in the sidelines and lets her be herself but all the time he is there supporting her.

Grandma Fontaine was one of my favorite secondary characters. Wise in her old age, she understands Scarlett as maybe only Rhett does and she gives advice and understanding to Scarlett who doesn't take the time to realize she’s not just a crazy old lady.

I think Grandma Fontaine sums up Ashley’s character best at Gerald’s funeral. Talking to Scarlett she tells her Ashley was raised to read books and that’s about it, he is a gentleman born and bred but he’s helpless. In the era of Reconstruction, well-bred families have limited choices, to rise above the ashes of their homes and re-make their fortunes or to let the misery overtake them. Ashley is of the Old South and he doesn't fit in the new south, nor does he try to. He clings to the old way, longing for a past that will never be again.

It’s obvious from the start Ashley is an ideal Scarlett has created and he can never live up to the picture she has painted. Ashley represents the old way of life and is too weak to thrive in the new. I've never had a liking for Ashley and the book sheds more light on his character. Yes, he’s weak but he’s so damn weak. Everyone claims he is a gentleman and in ways he is but he keeps Scarlett dangling for years knowing how she feels, knowing he will never leave Melly. I never thought Ashley loved Scarlett in the movie, admire and respect yes, but never love. And he doesn't love her now, but he does lust after her and he knows keeps her at arm’s length but never gives Scarlett the words to unleash her. He’s a weak coward.

Melly, he never realized until it’s too late how much he loved and depended on her. It breaks my heart to see poor Melly die and the two most important people to her never realize her value until it’s too late. What an incredible woman Melly is. A true lady but with a fierceness of mind and grit even in her weakened body. She is the backbone of these characters, giving them confidence and standing in the shadows as their champion.

There is obvious racism in the text but as a reader, I put in perspective first the time period the novel was about, the Civil war and also the time it was written, the 1930’s. Both are times of turmoil when those feelings streaked the American conscious. They are not my feelings, nor society’s, but once upon a time it happened. Gone with the Wind is about a time long past and that needs to be put in perspective when reading. I absolutely love Mammy; she is a force to be reckoned with. Iron strong, she is the soul of her family.

I loved the descriptions of the old south before the war, of beautiful plantations and parties, belles and beaux and a laid back way of life. It represents a time before modernity and machines colored the landscape, the determined and headstrong gallants rushing to war for their convictions, fighting a cause that was dead long before they stopped fighting.

The ending, oh the ending. I think my heart wrenched more at the end than at any other point of the novel. Damn Scarlett for taking so long to see what was in front of her face for years! I have mixed thoughts on what happens to Scarlett and Rhett. Mitchell left it open to the reader’s opinion what happens and I've two minds about it. On the one hand, Scarlett always gets what she wants in the end and the other are Rhett’s words (paraphrased) can something broken ever be truly put back together? If they do get back together, will Rhett be able to forget the past and have something wonderful with Scarlett?

I’m so glad I finally read this book. I loved every page and it’s now up there with the best books I’ve read this year, first or second and definitely in my all-time favorites. Now if I can just get four hours to myself to watch the movie again…

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Quote of the Day

“I love reading another reader’s list of favorites. Even when I find I do not share their tastes or predilections, I am provoked to compare, contrast, and contradict. It is a most healthy exercise, and one altogether fruitful.” 
― T.S. Eliot

Coffee and Conversation

I have about fifty pages of Gone with the Wind left and I love it. Can't get enough of it love. I keep wondering if I should bother reading Scarlett by Alexandra Ripley, the "sequel" to GWTW. Has anyone ever read it, is it even worth it?

I know how Gone ends from seeing the movie countless times and part of me believes Mitchell left us with that ending for a reason and it's up to us to determine if we believe Rhett and Scarlett get back together. Insert big but here, I am still curious to see what Ripley does with their story. So if anyone has read Scarlett, is it worth it? Any good?


Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Fifty Shades Freed


Fifty Shades Freed is the third and final installment in the E L James trilogy, Fifty Shades of Grey.
The book begins with Ana and Christian on their honeymoon and focuses on the continued evolvement of their relationship. Thrown in is a mysterious (or not so much) saboteur intent on destroying everything Christian loves.

This book is a whopping 579 pages. And nothing happens, repeat nothing! I cannot for the life of me figure out why this book is so long. Oh wait, James’s spends about five hundred pages giving the reader a rundown of Ana and Christian day to day life – they argue, Ana tries to talk to Christian, he sidesteps her with sex. The eighty pages left after that is spent with an outlandish plot involving Ana’s ex-boss.

I’m still stuck on the fact they are married after a long-term courtship of five weeks in which it was all roses and champagne. Oh no, must have dreamed that. It was high drama their entire dating (read sexting) span. Yet they are prepared to build a future together on that. Not as jaded as I thought after reading Fifty Shades Darker, apparently.

Ana is so worried and wrapped up in the thought that she is not enough for Christian, that he won’t be able to deny his sadist tendencies forever yet she constantly hints at “playing” and seemingly loves it.

I felt like the relationship between Christian and Ana was starting to improve in Fifty Shades Darker and now in this book, it resembles what they had in the first book. Christian’s controlling, domineering ways rear their ugly head big time in this book.  Ana seems to purposely piss him off and her antics make me want to slap her at times.

The same played out lines that were in abundance in the first two books are back and a new one gets a lot of air-time in Ana’s subconscious, or is it her Inner Goddess? She refers to Christian as her Fifty repeatedly, obnoxious. Although sadly, Laters, Baby seems to have been beaten to death and infrequently seen. Insert sad face.

There are over sixteen hundred pages in this trilogy. Each book averages over five hundred pages and not much happens in any of them. This was the worst for me in terms of redundancy; there are conversations where nothing happens, recycled conversations and meaningless chit chat. Isn’t that one of the primary writing 101 rules? These books should have been one book, there’s not enough meat in these to sustain them for sixteen hundred pages.

I would have liked to see more of Christian’s relationship with Elena (Mrs. Robinson). Instead it’s wrapped up in about two pages. So much importance was focused on their relationship and how it was the final straw in terms of Christian becoming the person he is and for it to be brushed off in two pages when I’ve had to suffer through countless pages of Ana’s Inner Goddess doing floor shows is a letdown to say the least.

If you have gotten this far in the trilogy, obviously you either love it or just want to finish what you started. I’m sorry I was curious enough to see what the hype was about, I could have been reading quality romance instead of wasting time on these books. 

Monday, September 24, 2012

Tea and Conversation

Happy Fall! I love this time of year for so many reasons but the one downside is the change of season inevitably brings the cold/flu season. My house has been a germ fest for a week now with Charlie and my nephew both down with colds. I've been fighting it for a few days and it finally got me. Of course I want to snuggle up with my book, a big cup of tea and chicken soup - which is not happening.

 I've been seriously neglecting Gone With The Wind and I feel like it is taking an incredibly long time to get through, (I haven't had a lot of time in the last few weeks to devote to reading) but I am really loving it. I've always loved the movie, and I think the book is amazingly good. There are things that are left out and Scarlett's POV lends even more depth to a wonderfully complex character.

 I'll be posting October's Book Club pick this week. I was thinking about making It  by Stephen King the selection to force me to read it. It's been sitting on my shelf since January but I've been too scared to read it, and if there's a month to be scared, October is the month. I have a couple others I'm throwing around too so I may chicken out.

What's everyone reading these days? Any good recommendations out there? Feel free to share!

Happy Reading everyone!


Quote of the Day

“It’s dark now and I am very tired. I love you, always. Time is nothing.” 
― Audrey Niffenegger, The Time Traveler's Wife

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Quote of the Day


“You know it makes one feel rather good deciding not to be a bitch.” 
― Ernest Hemingway